TRS Iyengar

Matching of Horoscopes For Marriage



Posted: Wednesday, July 07, 2004

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TRS Iyengar

Selection of Girl (or boy) through horoscope matching.

NO, not at all! In those olden days, when the child marriage marriages were rampant, it was essentially necessary for checking the compatibility of horoscope. To check for the boy's longevity, health, finance, social status of his future etc. Since the couples would be too young to judge about the future, it was devised to check the horoscope. So the arranged marriages were, mostly after checking the horoscopes of the boy and girl, to understand their future based on the natal charts. Since it was at different era that the horoscopes were compared and matched, whence the balya vivaha (child marriages) took place. But for the present generation, the marriages are solemnized after the eligible persons attaining generally after 20 years of age, fairly grown and matured, it is not a must or essential at all to match the horoscope.

And this holds good for the Love marriages, where the horoscope matching is a nightmare for many, as the many elders still insisting on matching the natal charts. Where it is not at all pertinent or necessary, still there are many blind followers of the astrological myths, or to be precise, I can blatantly state it as a mirth!  In a civilized society, these blind faith are something causing a lot more trouble than soothing analysis from the subject - Astrology. In this article, I discuss the general conditions and planetary alignments that effects or affects the persons married life. But for the general view, this cannot be taken as a final verdict. And in many cases, this judgment too fail, if any one's horoscope is with wrong calculations or birth timings. Please remember, fate supercedes everything and it is left to the destiny that rules. No, not the Astrologers or their predictions.

 

If you truly love some one, then go ahead, get married and be happy for ever. Never even look at this article as this is not meant for you. Marriages are made in heaven, and surely not by matching the horoscopes by astrologers. Remember this, you will be happy, that you avoided the horoscope matching.
 
For a long happy successful married life, the horoscope of girl should be not only good but match with yours(boy). In the present day context where divorces have increased manifold this is of paramount importance. It is impossible that the horoscope is good in all respects and match with yours in all aspects but a minimum requirement should be met with. Only then you will have a happy and harmonious married life. So attach considerable importance to the quality of girl's horoscope and its matching with that of yours. You may even take the advice of experts before you take a final decision.
  • Girl's Star
    If the girl's star is Mrigashersham or Magam or Swathi or Anusham then you need not look into other details and immediately select her. These stars are considered to be exceptionally good and so do not require matching of horscope from other angles.
  • Rajju
    Matching of Rajju is most important. Star of girl should not be the same or 10th or 19th of of your star. Some same stars are however exceptions.
  • Star
    Count from girl's star upto your star and divide the figure by nine. If the reminder is 2,4,6,8 then matching is good. If it is 5 it is tolerable. But if the reminder is 1, 3, 7 then there is no matching.
  • Rasi
    Your Rasi should be at least 6 counts from that of the girl. The owner of your Rasi should be friend and not an enemy of the owner of girl's Rasi.
  • Yoni
    Star Animal Bird Tree Ganam
    Aswini Male Horse Rajali Etti Angel
    Barani He Elephant Crow Nelli Human being
    Karthigai She goat Peocock Athi Rakshsan
    Rohini He Serpant Owl Nawal Human being
    Mrigashersham She Pelican Hen Karungali Angel
    Thiruvadharai He Dog sparrow Shengali Human being
    Punarpusam She Cat Swan Moongil Angel
    Pusam He Goat Water Crow Arasu Angel
    Ayilyam He Cat Keech Keech Punnai Demon
    Magam He Rat He Eagle Al Demon
    Puram She Cat She Eagle Palasu Human being
    Uthiram Buffallow Woodpecker Ithi Human being
    Hastham Buffalow Cow Vulture Athi Angel
    Chtithirai He Tiger Shilwandu Vilwam Demon
    Swathi He Buffallow Bee Marutham Angel
    Visakam She Tiger Stork Kadukkai Demon
    Anusham She Deer Vanambadi Magiyam Angel
    Kettai He Deer Chakkaravagam Parai Demon
    Moolam She Dog Shembothu Mango tree Demon
    Puradam He Monkey Kavuthari Vanchi Human Being
    Uthiradam Mongoose Valiyan Pala Human Being
    Thiruvonam She Monkey Pelican Erukku Angel
    Avittam She Lion Vandu Valli Demon
    Sadhayam She Horse Dead Black Crow Kadambu Demon
    Purattadhi He Lion Ullan Thema Human Being
    Uthirattadhi Cow Kottan Vembu Human Being
    Revathi she Elephant Valluru Iluppai Angel

    The second column in the Table gives the name of animal associated with the star. This is the Yoni of the star. The star of girl and boy should be of different Yoni. Further the animals asociated with girl's star should not be an enemy of that of boy's star such as Cow-Tiger, Elephant- Lion, Horse-Buffalow, Serpant-Mongoose, Monkey-Goat, Cat-Rat, Deer-Dog.
  • Ganam
    The fifth column in the Table gives the ganam associated with a star. Boy and girl should belong to the same ganam. If boy belongs to 'Angel' ganam, the girl can be of 'Human being' ganam. There will be agreement if boy belongs to 'demon' ganam and girl to 'Human being' ganam'. If the ganam of both boy and girl belong to 'Demon' then the star of boy should be above 14th of girl's star.
  • Mahaendram
    The agreement is good if the count from girl's star to boy's star is 1, 4, 7, 10, 13, 16, 19, 22, 25.
  • Vashiyam
    Agreement of Rasi for vasiyam are given Table below
    Rasi of girl or boy Rasi of girl or boy
    Mesham Simham, Vrichikam
    Vrishabam Katakam, Thulam
    Mithunam Kanni
    Katakam Vrichikam, Dhanus
    Simham Thulam
    Kanni Mithunam
    Thulam Makaram, Kanni
    Vrichikam Katakam
    Dhanus Meenam
    Makaram Mesham, Kumbam
    Kumbam Mesham
    Meenam Makaram
  • Vedai
    Stars which are Veddai to each other are given below
    Ashvini - Kettai
    Barani - Anusham
    Karthigai - Vishakam
    Rohini - Swathi
    Thiruvadharai - Thiruvonam
    Punarpusam - Uthiradam
    Pusam - Puradam
    Ayilyam - Moolam
    Magam - Revathi
    Pooram - Uthirattadhi
    Uthiram - Poorattadhi
    Hastham - Sadhayam
    Mrigashirsham - Chithirai - Avittam. The boy's star should not be Vedai to girl's star and vice versa
  • NadiThere are 3 Nadis viz Parshva Nadi, Madya Nadi, Samana Nadi.The stars belonging to the three Nadis are given below.
    Parshva Nadi - Ashvini, Thiruvadharai, Punarpusam, Uthiram, Hastham, Kettai, Moolam, Sadayam, Poorattadhi
    Madya Nadi - Barani, Mrigashirsam, Poosam, Pooram, Chithirai, Anusham, Pooradam, Avittam, Uthirattadhi
    Samana Nadi - Rohini, Ayilyam, Magam, Swathi, vishakam, Uthiradam, Thiruvonam, Revathi.
    The girl and boy should not belong to the same Nadi.
  • Sevvai Dosham
    If Sevvai(Mars) is placed in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran, the horscope has a strong Sevvai dosham. If Sevvai(Mars) is placed at 7th or 8th house from Sukran(Venus), there is Sevvai dosham but it is slightly milder than earlier. If Sevvai(Mars) is placed at 2nd, 4th, or 12th house from Lagnam, Chandran or Sukran(Venus) there is mild Sevvai dosham. For horoscope agreement, the Sevvai dosham in girl's and boy's horoscope should be of matching order. If Sevvai is in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran in girl's horoscope, then Sevvai should also be in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran in Boy's horscope for matching. Otherwise, there will be no agreement. If Sevvai is along with Guru or is seen by Guru(5th or 7th or 9th house from Guru), then the degree of Sevvai dosham gets reduced. If Sevvai is in its own house or is exhalted or debilitated, the Sevvai dosham gets reduced or is not present(according to some). If Sevvai is alongwith Rahu and Kethu or is aspected by Sani then Sevvai dosham gets reduced.
  • Rahu/Kethu Dosham
    If Rahu/Kethu is in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran, there is Rahu/Kethu dosham. For matching, there should be Rahu/Kethu dosham in both girl's and boy's horoscope or both horoscopes should be free from Rahu/Kethu dosham
  • Dasa Sandhi
    No dasa in girl's and boy's horscope should change within 6 months of each other within 30years from marriage. If such change occurs there is likelyhood of problem in married life.
And finally for Gandharva Vivaha known as Love marriages, it is not at all necessary to match the horoscope at the first place. This is according to Hindu system and practice that marriage matching is only taken for the arranged marriages through elders and there is no need for one to match the horoscope for Love marriages.

Please see http://www.trsiyengar.com/id19.html

TRS Iyengar, born on December 01, 1950 has written many articles on Hinduism, Srivaishnavam and the rationale behind their practices. Native of Mukkur in Tamilnadu, well settled in Mumbai aka Bombay since 41 years, runs a free website at Srivaishnavam Practices, where a free Brahmin - Iyengar/Iyer matrimonial services are run. The author, a free lance Astrologer and also perform Pujas in and around Mumbai, has a Son, employed and a daughter now studying in the College. Nakshatra: Uthrashada, Rasi: Makara. 5'6" wheatish, a typical South Indian Tamil Srivaisahnava Brahmin, always in Dhothi and Angavastram! Anyswers question related to Hindu Religion & Practices with convincing rationale meaning.
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» left by santera from malaysia 153 days 7 hours ago.
my boy name sony ben fernandez. birth 13-08-1972. my name is santera..birth 17-02-1983 pls see marrige match...thanks alot sir

» left by Thenu from Chennai 150 days 9 hours ago.
Beloved, Respected Sir,

I hv got alliance among which one guy has anusham star and the another guy is swati. Which is i can choose to have a lovely and peaceful life sir.

» left by raghu from coimbatore 143 days 9 hours ago.
boy dob 02.02.1986 8.24am

girl dob 01.02.1988 6.56 pm

pl calculate dasa sandhi
» left by sowmia narayanan
from kanchipuram
135 days 4 hours ago.
sowmia narayanan(M) dob is 27.11.1976.time:4pm birth place:kanchi.gothram: iyengat thengalai.srivatsam.sir,i want to know when i will get married.my mother trying almost.what type of girl i get.pls send my clear horoscope to my mailid..whether am i having any dosham.?pls help me to get married.
» left by priyanka
from kochin
126 days 11 hours ago.
sir i have couple of doubts if the mail id is given to me it wud b greatful .
» left by rekha
90 days 12 hours ago.
sir iam rekha my dob is 27th april 1991,saturday at 14.30hrs and puneet-09 may 1987,saturday at 13.00hrs

please do the matching of horoscope and give me a quick response
» left by Vidyaa from Chennai 83 days 12 hours ago.
Dear Sir,

Date of Birth of mine : November 13, 1987. Ayilyam natchatra and kataka rasi

Guy's DoB : October 17, 1986, Revati natchatra and Meena rasi

Can u giude me whether the above jadagam matches? v both are looking for your earliest guidance to start our life.

Regards,

Vidyaa. K
» left by Hema Srinivasan
from Chennai
49 days 8 hours ago.
You are doing a wonderful job Sir.

I hav got a son aged 29 to be married and i want to look out for my daughter 24 (swathi) after finalising for my son ,--- Ayilyam 2padam.

But this horoscope matching stands as a big obstacle in finalising things

I am really at a loss as what to do.

Hema Srinivasan

» left by Devi 34 days 9 hours ago.
sir iam Devi my dob is 08th lSeptember 1985,and vinothkumar-18 October 1986

please do the matching of horoscope and give me a quick response

» left by krithika
from erode
7 days 11 hours ago.
hello sir,

i'm in love.. we love each other truly..in his house, dey went & see our both jadhagam..

in that, he has a sevvai dhosam in 8th place.. but i had no dhosam.. so he got afraid.. he thought, if he marry me, i'll die.. so he leave from me.. but i cant live without him.. pls tell me ur sujjestion or any parigaaram..

name: krithika dob:31-dec-1989 time;4.04am place: gobichettipalayam

name: karthick dob:01-nov-1989 time:4.35 pm place: dharmapuri


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