Matching of Horoscopes For Marriage
Posted: Wednesday, July 07, 2004
by TRS Iyengar
TRS Iyengar
Selection of Girl (or boy) through horoscope matching.
NO, not at all! In those olden days, when the child marriage marriages were rampant, it was essentially necessary for checking the compatibility of horoscope. To check for the boy's longevity, health, finance, social status of his future etc. Since the couples would be too young to judge about the future, it was devised to check the horoscope. So the arranged marriages were, mostly after checking the horoscopes of the boy and girl, to understand their future based on the natal charts. Since it was at different era that the horoscopes were compared and matched, whence the balya vivaha (child marriages) took place. But for the present generation, the marriages are solemnized after the eligible persons attaining generally after 20 years of age, fairly grown and matured, it is not a must or essential at all to match the horoscope.
And this holds good for the Love marriages, where the horoscope matching is a nightmare for many, as the many elders still insisting on matching the natal charts. Where it is not at all pertinent or necessary, still there are many blind followers of the astrological myths, or to be precise, I can blatantly state it as a mirth! In a civilized society, these blind faith are something causing a lot more trouble than soothing analysis from the subject - Astrology. In this article, I discuss the general conditions and planetary alignments that effects or affects the persons married life. But for the general view, this cannot be taken as a final verdict. And in many cases, this judgment too fail, if any one's horoscope is with wrong calculations or birth timings. Please remember, fate supercedes everything and it is left to the destiny that rules. No, not the Astrologers or their predictions.
If you truly love some one, then go ahead, get married and be happy for ever. Never even look at this article as this is not meant for you. Marriages are made in heaven, and surely not by matching the horoscopes by astrologers. Remember this, you will be happy, that you avoided the horoscope matching.
For a long happy successful married life, the horoscope of girl should be not only good but match with yours(boy). In the present day context where divorces have increased manifold this is of paramount importance. It is impossible that the horoscope is good in all respects and match with yours in all aspects but a minimum requirement should be met with. Only then you will have a happy and harmonious married life. So attach considerable importance to the quality of girl's horoscope and its matching with that of yours. You may even take the advice of experts before you take a final decision.
- Girl's Star
If the girl's star is Mrigashersham or Magam or Swathi or Anusham then you need not look into other details and immediately select her. These stars are considered to be exceptionally good and so do not require matching of horscope from other angles. - Rajju
Matching of Rajju is most important. Star of girl should not be the same or 10th or 19th of of your star. Some same stars are however exceptions. - Star
Count from girl's star upto your star and divide the figure by nine. If the reminder is 2,4,6,8 then matching is good. If it is 5 it is tolerable. But if the reminder is 1, 3, 7 then there is no matching. - Rasi
Your Rasi should be at least 6 counts from that of the girl. The owner of your Rasi should be friend and not an enemy of the owner of girl's Rasi. - Yoni
Star Animal Bird Tree Ganam Aswini Male Horse Rajali Etti Angel Barani He Elephant Crow Nelli Human being Karthigai She goat Peocock Athi Rakshsan Rohini He Serpant Owl Nawal Human being Mrigashersham She Pelican Hen Karungali Angel Thiruvadharai He Dog sparrow Shengali Human being Punarpusam She Cat Swan Moongil Angel Pusam He Goat Water Crow Arasu Angel Ayilyam He Cat Keech Keech Punnai Demon Magam He Rat He Eagle Al Demon Puram She Cat She Eagle Palasu Human being Uthiram Buffallow Woodpecker Ithi Human being Hastham Buffalow Cow Vulture Athi Angel Chtithirai He Tiger Shilwandu Vilwam Demon Swathi He Buffallow Bee Marutham Angel Visakam She Tiger Stork Kadukkai Demon Anusham She Deer Vanambadi Magiyam Angel Kettai He Deer Chakkaravagam Parai Demon Moolam She Dog Shembothu Mango tree Demon Puradam He Monkey Kavuthari Vanchi Human Being Uthiradam Mongoose Valiyan Pala Human Being Thiruvonam She Monkey Pelican Erukku Angel Avittam She Lion Vandu Valli Demon Sadhayam She Horse Dead Black Crow Kadambu Demon Purattadhi He Lion Ullan Thema Human Being Uthirattadhi Cow Kottan Vembu Human Being Revathi she Elephant Valluru Iluppai Angel
The second column in the Table gives the name of animal associated with the star. This is the Yoni of the star. The star of girl and boy should be of different Yoni. Further the animals asociated with girl's star should not be an enemy of that of boy's star such as Cow-Tiger, Elephant- Lion, Horse-Buffalow, Serpant-Mongoose, Monkey-Goat, Cat-Rat, Deer-Dog. - Ganam
The fifth column in the Table gives the ganam associated with a star. Boy and girl should belong to the same ganam. If boy belongs to 'Angel' ganam, the girl can be of 'Human being' ganam. There will be agreement if boy belongs to 'demon' ganam and girl to 'Human being' ganam'. If the ganam of both boy and girl belong to 'Demon' then the star of boy should be above 14th of girl's star. - Mahaendram
The agreement is good if the count from girl's star to boy's star is 1, 4, 7, 10, 13, 16, 19, 22, 25. - Vashiyam
Agreement of Rasi for vasiyam are given Table belowRasi of girl or boy Rasi of girl or boy Mesham Simham, Vrichikam Vrishabam Katakam, Thulam Mithunam Kanni Katakam Vrichikam, Dhanus Simham Thulam Kanni Mithunam Thulam Makaram, Kanni Vrichikam Katakam Dhanus Meenam Makaram Mesham, Kumbam Kumbam Mesham Meenam Makaram - Vedai
Stars which are Veddai to each other are given below
Ashvini - Kettai
Barani - Anusham
Karthigai - Vishakam
Rohini - Swathi
Thiruvadharai - Thiruvonam
Punarpusam - Uthiradam
Pusam - Puradam
Ayilyam - Moolam
Magam - Revathi
Pooram - Uthirattadhi
Uthiram - Poorattadhi
Hastham - Sadhayam
Mrigashirsham - Chithirai - Avittam. The boy's star should not be Vedai to girl's star and vice versa - NadiThere are 3 Nadis viz Parshva Nadi, Madya Nadi, Samana Nadi.The stars belonging to the three Nadis are given below.
Parshva Nadi - Ashvini, Thiruvadharai, Punarpusam, Uthiram, Hastham, Kettai, Moolam, Sadayam, Poorattadhi
Madya Nadi - Barani, Mrigashirsam, Poosam, Pooram, Chithirai, Anusham, Pooradam, Avittam, Uthirattadhi
Samana Nadi - Rohini, Ayilyam, Magam, Swathi, vishakam, Uthiradam, Thiruvonam, Revathi.
The girl and boy should not belong to the same Nadi. - Sevvai Dosham
If Sevvai(Mars) is placed in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran, the horscope has a strong Sevvai dosham. If Sevvai(Mars) is placed at 7th or 8th house from Sukran(Venus), there is Sevvai dosham but it is slightly milder than earlier. If Sevvai(Mars) is placed at 2nd, 4th, or 12th house from Lagnam, Chandran or Sukran(Venus) there is mild Sevvai dosham. For horoscope agreement, the Sevvai dosham in girl's and boy's horoscope should be of matching order. If Sevvai is in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran in girl's horoscope, then Sevvai should also be in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran in Boy's horscope for matching. Otherwise, there will be no agreement. If Sevvai is along with Guru or is seen by Guru(5th or 7th or 9th house from Guru), then the degree of Sevvai dosham gets reduced. If Sevvai is in its own house or is exhalted or debilitated, the Sevvai dosham gets reduced or is not present(according to some). If Sevvai is alongwith Rahu and Kethu or is aspected by Sani then Sevvai dosham gets reduced. - Rahu/Kethu Dosham
If Rahu/Kethu is in 7th or 8th house from Lagnam or Chandran, there is Rahu/Kethu dosham. For matching, there should be Rahu/Kethu dosham in both girl's and boy's horoscope or both horoscopes should be free from Rahu/Kethu dosham - Dasa Sandhi
No dasa in girl's and boy's horscope should change within 6 months of each other within 30years from marriage. If such change occurs there is likelyhood of problem in married life.
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More commentshello sir,
i'm in love.. we love each other truly..in his house, dey went & see our both jadhagam..
in that, he has a sevvai dhosam in 8th place.. but i had no dhosam.. so he got afraid.. he thought, if he marry me, i'll die.. so he leave from me.. but i cant live without him.. pls tell me ur sujjestion or any parigaaram..
name: krithika dob:31-dec-1989 time;4.04am place: gobichettipalayam
name: karthick dob:01-nov-1989 time:4.35 pm place: dharmapuri
Dear sir, plz help me. I am 24 yrs Brahmin girl and my raasi is leo and nakshatra is pubba.
In my home people had seen a guy and all mind was set that he is one for me. now they hace cancelled at last minute that since horoscope doesnot match its cancelled.
am feeling very bad. they said gunas is 14 and so cant go with marriage.
plz help me .. i dnt want to hurt parents also but even guy;s side also they have agreed even after seeing horoscope.
the problem is with my side people. plz help me
BOY D.O.B - 14/september/1985, TIME - 04:30 PM, PLACE - Bhatpara
GIRL D.O.B - 21/april/1989, TIME - 08:40 PM, PLACE - Tripunithura
Please tell me whether dasa sandhi is there or not.
Respected Sir,
I am 32 Years old and was born on 13th of may 1979 at7:30 a.m .I am not yet married and have done lots of poojas for this sake but i am not getting the right kind of guy..Please do tell me when i will get married.I was born in koothuparamba near to tellichery in kerala and i live in kodagu,karnataka. Please do reply to my mail.
-Thankyou,
Priya
Dear sir , I need to knw match make
Boy: 24april1980 time :0250am
And me
Girl:30april1986 time:0550am
Please email me the match as well the sulotion if not match pls thank u sir
Dear sir, please check to matching point for us and please tell me the sulotion for all the problem I and him loving to much but nowadays always have problem for nothing:(
Boy:24april1980 time:0250am
And me
Girl:20april1986 time :0550am
Please tell me the sulotion to we leaving peacefully till end of the life ....
Dear Sir, I kindly request you to see our porutham and also pls recommend us if any parigaaram to be done.
Boy: 06Sep1990 10.38pm Chennai
Girl: 14June1991 12.40am Chennai
Eagerly waiting for your reply.
Sir, very use ful for every one, my rasi and natchatram is kanni, uthiram, which rasi and natchatram girl is best for me pls reply iwas so tired to searching girl pls help me
Dear Sir,
I am very much relieved after seeing your website regarding the details of love marriage.
I plan to meet you or contact through phone.
In short, I and another girl is in love for more than 8 years. But now due to their parents sake we see the jatagam. In that my star is moolam and her is revathi. Some persons told that if we marry then one our life will end shortly, also there will be problem in child birth. so they feared and not accpeting our marriage. But now i realised these thisngs are not apply to Gaandharva marriage.
Is there any other way to convince their parents..
Mr. Santhanamji Sir,
I am the co-brother of Mr. N. Gopalanji of East Dombivail, Mumbai. All the vaisnava items, articles found in ur website are very much useful, to follow our traditional customs.
Venkatraman Raja.
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